“It’s about being there…”
In today's rapidly evolving world, education has taken on new dimensions, making the involvement of parents in their children's learning process more crucial than ever before. The modern education system, while more dynamic and encompassing a wider range of skills, also demands a supportive framework at home to ensure holistic development. Parents play a pivotal role in nurturing, guiding, and influencing their children's educational journey, which goes beyond merely helping with homework or attending parent-teacher meetings. Their involvement can shape attitudes towards learning, instil critical values, and lay the foundation for lifelong learning. At the core of parental involvement in education is the direct influence it has on a child's academic success. Studies have consistently shown that children whose parents are actively engaged in their education tend to perform better academically. This involvement can range from monitoring their homework, fostering productive study habits, to encouraging intellectual curiosity or patiently being there on their slow journey.
The magic is, being there.. A lot of people have kids. Not enough people are parents. It might seem like having a kid is what makes you a mother or a father, but we all know it isn’t. There are plenty of people who take their kids to school, buy them clothes, put food in their bellies, give them a warm bed to sleep in… but who are not really parents. They act like legal guardians. That is not parenting that is the minimum. Procreating is biological. Parenting is psychological. It’s a decision. A conscious choice. A commitment- commitment to actually change who you are and what your priorities should be for the benefit and betterment of your children. Commitment to sacrifice and service and the real work of making hard decisions, of loving, not just having.
Fr. Jaison Joshua
Principal
“Don’t worry that children never listen to you: worry that they are always watching you.” -Robert Fulghum
It is constantly reiterated that education begins in the home, but what is often forgotten is that morality begins in the home also. Education is not just about acquiring knowledge but also about social and moral development. Schools may impart academic knowledge, but the values, ethics, and social norms that shape a child's character are often cultivated at home. Parents play an indispensable role in teaching their children about respect, empathy, responsibility, and the importance of contributing positively to society. In modern education, social skills like teamwork, communication, and leadership are essential. Parents can nurture these skills by encouraging collaborative activities, fostering friendships, and teaching their children how to navigate interpersonal relationships. In a world that increasingly values emotional intelligence, parental guidance in social interactions is critical.
Additionally, parents are role models for ethical behavior. Whether it's showing respect for others, demonstrating integrity, or promoting fairness, these values often stem from the lessons children learn at home. When parents emphasize the importance of ethical decision-making, children are more likely to carry these principles into their school life and beyond. To be in your children’s memories tomorrow, you have to be in their lives today.
Fr.Jaison Joshua, S.J
Principal